These people are the ones who actually cause us the most harm. But there are those also whom we regard as our kith and kin who give us the maximum support and the love that we have been looking for.
The person whom you had loved for so long has paid you back in the most grueling way possible. He has wrenched your heart out and caused you very much pain through his ideas and way of dealing things with you. He was the only concern for you but he did not give you your due. He was the only one who had caused you so much of pain.
He should have not done things like those which he has really done to you but then again you accepted every thing because you had loved him dearly. Your ex boyfriend is a person who does not respect other’s emotions neither has ever paid you the right respect and dignity that he might have given to you but he has treated you very badly and unceremoniously.
So you need to get over him as soon as possible in this way you will start healing properly and quickly. It is quite obvious that the time after your break up is the most difficult phase for you to overcome by your self. But the sooner you accept the fact that he has left you and you need to move ahead in your life with out him, the better it will be for you.
You will realize that you have mellowed down and you will reason out things rather than fret over a single issue. You will see that you have learnt to forgive people as you know hurting people is not the remedy for you to do any thing for that matter for any one.
You need to be very firm and diligent in order to get over this situation as it will do you good if you sulk and feel sad and gloomy about him then you can never get over him properly and he will cause you pain more than often in your thoughts.
So it is best that you do other things or get engaged with other stuff so that you can get the maximum benefit out of your life ahead in your future. It is better for you remember him less as reminiscing the past will not do any good and it will not yield much betterment for you.
You may have been committed to him but he was the one who did not bother to reciprocate to that commitment in a commendable way so now it is pure waste of time to think of him in each and every way possible. So you need to be firm and sure of your self and you will be able to get over him in a complete way.